Shalini Komarla – From India to Austin with Diversity = AIN

We have tried our best to feature other ethnic groups, more the Europeans, in Austin. This time we wanted to feature AIN which sounds a bit Asian but stands for Austin Intercultural Network – and its current local leader Shalini Komarla from India.

Please introduce yourself ?

Hi! My name is Shalini Komarla and I was born and brought up in India. I came to Austin, Tx almost 20 years ago, with 2 bags, and an unfaltering determination to make a life for myself…and never looked back since!

I started my career in hi-tech as a programmer and worked my way up to various leadership positions in hi-tech companies including Rackspace, BMC Software and Allianz. I currently serve as the Executive Director of Austin Intercultural Network (a non-profit that aims to celebrate and promote diversity in the community) and am on the Board of Directors of AFSSA (formerly SAHELI), a non-profit organization that provides assistance to Asian and other immigrant families dealing with domestic violence, sexual assault and trafficking issues. I live in beautiful West Austin with my wonderful husband, 2 amazing kids and my adorable dog.

What did your parents do and where are they now?

My father was a Brigadier in the Indian Army where he served for 30+ years and he passed away in 1999. My mother was mostly a home maker and now spends her time between India and the USA, spending quality time with her grandkids.

When and why did you move to USA , where have you lived before that – how did you choose those cities/career?

I grew up in India and studied Computer Science. I moved to Austin in February of 1995, straight out of college and with a job offer to work as a consultant to IBM. At that time, the hi tech industry was booming and the dot com bubble was just starting to form. It’s been upward and onward from there!

What do you love about Austin?

There is so much to love about this city! I love the beautiful hills of West Austin and Zilker Park and Town Lake. Austin is a melting pot and you can find people from all around the world living here. It’s great to come across and learn about all the different cultures and how international our city is becoming. I also enjoy the live music scene and eclectic vibe of the SOCO district.

Usually there are some negatives, what are the ones for Austin that really stand out for you personally?

For me personally, I dislike the allergies and in more recent years, the congested roadways and traffic related issues during peak hours.

What is important to you in life — Why? Since you are more multicultural in my opinion you may have more varied likes/dislikes.

My family is very important to me and they are my priority! We love to go on vacations together and enjoy going on adventures. I love to sing and dance! I am a Bollywood dancer and keep my passion alive by performing occasionally in and around the Austin area. I also enjoy meeting new people and learning about other cultures and AIN provides me the perfect opportunity to do so.

Where is home for you outside US? And how often do you go back home? What do you miss the most – and the least?

Austin is home for me now, and my mother’s home in New Delhi, India is my home away from home. I try and visit every 2-3 years, though I wish I could go back every year! I miss my extended family, my cousins, but thanks to Facebook and Skype, the past few years I am able to see them and keep in touch with them more frequently, without having to visit them and deal with the pollution and traffic…it’s really bad!

What is your favorite food/s and drink?

I don’t have a favorite cuisine but generally I like spicy food (surprise! surprise!…LOL!). Oh and I love a cup of hot Chai Tea and am always up for grabbing some with a friend!

What would you like anyone know and appreciate about your country? (food, music, culture, people, history….)

India is an extremely diverse country. The people from the different parts of India speak different languages, follow different religions and customs, cook different kinds of food and wear different types of clothing. However the hospitality, friendliness and warmth of the Indian people resonates everywhere and is much appreciated by everyone, especially visitors.

Would you ever return to live there full-time?

Frankly, I have no idea.

Would you share with us what are your plans for the future?  

I want to continue to serve the community, bring people together and make a difference in their lives. At AIN, we are planning an International Fashion Show (March 2015) and an International Festival in Austin (November 2015), in collaboration with other local organizations. This festival is an opportunity to celebrate the uniqueness of the Austin community by bringing different cultural groups together. At some point next year, I will launch my own business, but it’s a little too early to discuss that.

What is it in life that makes you happy or content – that means different stuff for all of us.

I look forward to my meditations each morning – they help me stay connected with my inner self and help me stay focused on what truly matters to me. I also enjoy walking my dog, which I find very therapeutic and relaxing. It makes me happy to spend time with my family, especially the weekends. I cherish the time I spend with my friends – we talk about anything and everything over a good glass of wine. I like to meet people and I love to dance and read when I can. I am so grateful for every new day and for the opportunity to live life and realize my dreams!

Anything else you would like to share with us?

I met Mother Teresa during my younger days back in school in India. She visited our school for an annual day celebration and was giving out awards, and I was lucky to receive an award from her and shake her hands. It was a profound moment that I will never forget…

Connect with Shalini Komarla:

Shalini at LinkedIn
AIN at Facebook
Shalini at Facebook
AIN website

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Heini Tavastia from Finland shares her thoughts about life as an actress in Los Angeles

Who Is Heini Tavastia? What does Heini do and where?

I am an actress living and working in Los Angeles. I was born and raised in Finland and moved to England to study performing at the age of 21. After getting my Bachelor of Fine Arts in Media Performance I moved from London to New York to further develop my acting skills. I studied both in Manhattan and here in LA and finally got my Masters of Fine Arts in Acting in June 2014. I recently signed with an agency and now I’m really looking forward to the pilot season – or what’s left of it.

At what age did you know that you wanted to be an actress/director?

The dream of being an actress started to form around the age of eight. I had been cast as the lead role in a school play when I had an epiphany. I remember standing on the stage looking at the audience and thinking to myself this is kind of cool. I like this feeling. Ever since that moment it was somewhat clear that performing and entertaining would eventually give me my paycheck. However, when I was 17 it became official that I not only wanted to be an actress but I also had to study acting in New York.

Directing was never really my passion to be honest. However, I did learn something about it during both of my BFA and MFA studies and I have directed for both stage and camera. I enjoyed it and liked the feeling of being in charge of everything. However, my passion and focus right now is on acting. Maybe I’ll get inspired by Ben Affleck and get my head around directing later on in my career.

What has been the most exciting “thing” or role that you’ve covered during your career or should we say careers? I think you do some other stuff as well?

Yes, I do presenting and hosting as well but I wouldn’t talk about that as a career – yet? One of the most memorable acting experiences was in England when I was preparing for a role of a woman with mental illness. I did a lot of research about depression, paranoia and psychosis. The author of the play, Sarah Kane, suffered from mental illness herself and eventually committed suicide. All that affected me in a larger than life kind of way and I felt like 80% of my personality changed along the process. I wasn’t really trying to go Method with the role but I felt like I did at least to a certain extent. I started to wear all black outfits on a regular basis – not my style back then – listened only to depressing music – not my style back then – had dreams about death and anxiety – really not my style back then – stopped caring about my appearance or wellbeing and just basked in the overall misery I was experiencing. My whole posture and way of walking changed. One day I walked to class dragging my new bag on the ground not caring about the damage I did to it. That was the  second year of my studies in England and I was a little scared of the whole experience. I learned that getting out of the character sometimes requires as much work as getting into it.

Is there any particular story, moment, an award or an achievement throughout your career that you are particularly proud of?

Making my dream come true by moving to New York. I cried three times every month – yes, I did keep a record – for eight months because I was so happy to be living the life I had  always imagined. Then, two months before I had to leave I started to cry because…well, I had to leave. The whole execution of the dream was mind-blowing itself but it also opened many doors, lead to a few great achievements and introduced me to some of the most precious people in my life. None of that would have happened without the first step.

What would you say is the biggest misconception that people have about your profession?

A lot of people I’ve met who are not in the industry often think acting is easier than it actually is, that it is mostly rainbows and butterflies. Don’t get me wrong, acting is a lot of fun and actually can be all rainbows and butterflies. But if you put a lot of effort into building your character – especially if the role is emotionally demanding – then the job can  become really draining. When I was still studying the days were emotionally really hard. It took a lot of energy to live in an unhappy place mentally in order to stay in the right state of mind for your scene and push yourself to the point that you cry almost every day in front of  the entire class. Being vulnerable is the key and most people think it’s not a biggie because it’s being done “in character”. In reality you have to bring a lot of you to the table in order to access those feelings.

What do you enjoy most about being an actor vs. some “regular” job? What is the worst thing about being an actor?

The best thing is to be able to live different lives; occupations, personalities, backgrounds. I also love emotions. I love scenes and characters that are multi dimensional – well, what actor wouldn’t – and give me a ride to the moon and back. One of my teachers in New York once used an example of what actors are like. He said that only actors get happily excited when they are given a tragic story with a tragic character: ‘Oh my God, I grew up without parents? I have lived out on the streets for ten years? I almost drowned when I was a child and that has traumatized me for life? I lost both of my legs in a war two years ago when I was saving my pet hamster from a burning building? And I also have a disease that no doctor has a cure for? Wow, this is it! My time has come. This is some serious Oscar-winner
stuff.’

I guess the worst thing is the fact that you can’t change your hairstyle just like that. You have to look exactly as you do in your headshot so if you go and make drastic changes in your look the hairdresser is not the only one you have to pay. You’ll also have to pay hundreds of dollars for new headshots.

What have you found to be the biggest difference between acting in Finland and Los Angeles? Do you know if there is a difference between training – and how hard/easy it is to get a university level degree in each country?

The biggest difference is the size of the industry. I can’t say anything from a personal point of view because I’ve never studied acting or done acting in Finland in my adult years. I was a part of a youth theatre throughout my teenage years but that doesn’t really make me  qualified enough to talk about the differences. All I know is that the last year of my MFA studies was almost too intense. Easily the hardest year of my life. 13-hour-long days with two 15-minute breaks were not uncommon in my schedule and I almost burned out during the last few months.

What kinds of people do well in this field of work in your opinion?

Real people who never give up. It’s a cliché but it’s a cliché for a reason. It’s so true. First of all, you’re very likely not going to get a change if you don’t work hard in the first place. Determination and self-belief are fundamental. And when you do get the change you’re not going to get far if you’re not a nice, real person. And by real I mean just be yourself. Be nice to everybody. Fake it till you make it only gets you to a certain point. After that if you still feel like you’re going strong it’s probably because you’re dealing with people who put up with you just because they are the same as you.

Are there any roles that you would hate to cover? Or would love to cover.

Well, I’d love to cover that example story my teacher told my class! Seriously speaking, I would love to take on a role that requires learning something completely new or somehow puts me through hell. Comedy is close to my heart and within my comfort zone so doing something ridiculously hilarious – but with good taste – would be definitely a yes, too. There aren’t many roles that I know straight away I’d say no to. I find it relatively easy to find something in every character that makes me fall in love with them. However, I have tried to stay away from the typical tall blonde characters, meaning ditzy stereotypes that are written in only to be eye candies and don’t have a rich emotional and intellectual life to begin with.

What advice would you give to other aspiring European actors aiming for the stars in Hollywood? Anything NOT to do or expect?

Go for it. Only have a plan A because the minute you start thinking of a plan B you’re already on the wrong track. And do not say yes to everything! You don’t have to do everything you’re being offered. Even if you could use the money think about your future. For example, I have pretty systematically said no to music videos. I’ll consider doing it if the video has a meaningful story and it’s tastefully done. What you do attracts more same kind of jobs so choose wisely in the beginning. Oh and also, be artistically, mentally and physically prepared all the time. All the damn time. You don’t know when a door is going to open. Success is when preparation meets opportunity.

What and who captivate you in the world of the celebrities – and why?

Oh wow, I’ll try to keep the list short. First of all, all the legends from Marlon Brando to Meryl Streep obviously. I also like Jennifer Lawrence and Ryan Gosling. Before anyone thinks I like them because of their looks or them being hot stuff at the moment may I just say hold your horses. I think both have very honest and open approach to acting and their presences radiate those qualities also in general. That is very inviting and captivating to watch. Morgan Freeman has the same spark. I also admire people who can believably make others laugh or cry. That’s why I consider the late great Robin Williams one of a kind.

Since you are Finnish – I must ask what you miss the most from Finland. Do you think you’ll ever return to live back there? And how is the Finnish community in Los Angeles?

In New York I used to miss sauna. Now in LA I miss snow and winter. It’s almost beyond belief how much I long for rainy days, cold weather and grey misery. A rainy day in LA is automatically a happy day. That means there are about five automatically happy days in a year here. Other happy days are just happy despite the sunshine.

I have never imagined my future in Finland. I’ve always seen having a family and career in America. So no, at least at this point of my life I don’t think I’ll return to Finland. I could move back for a short period of time if there was a cool project that I wanted to be a part of but my life and network have become pretty solid out here.

As far as for the Finnish community… I don’t know much about it. I know some Finnish people here but don’t have any Finnish friends. Wow, that sounds sad. But it’s true. I’ve never had a desire to seek for Finns to feel home or some next lever connection that only another Finn could understand. Finnish or not, as long as you’re cool we’re cool.

What do you see is the best about the Finnish culture/people vs. American?

I like the American easiness when it comes to networking and making new friends. Ok yeah,it can be all small talk and lead to nowhere. Nonetheless, opening the door for a possible friendship or a business connection is easy here.

Finland taught me to be down to earth and cut the crap. Too high maintenance princess attitude doesn’t fly with me.

Is there anything else we need to know?

I have a blog and post about my life and experiences in LA (and sometimes New York). It’s in Finnish but I have tested and Google translator gives a pretty decent translation of the content.

 

heinilondoni.blogspot.com
Instagram: instagram.com/heinihoo
Facebook: facebook/heinitavastia
Twitter: twitter.com/heinitavastia

Chicago: Ian Maksin – The Talented Cellist from St. Petersburg, Russia Shares His Thoughts with Us

Please introduce yourself.

My name is Ian Maksin. I play the cello for. I grew up in St. Petersburg Russia and came to the United States when I was seventeen to study cello at the Manhattan School of Music in New York City.

When and why did you start playing – and which instruments do you play?

I played piano and guitar since as long as I remember, there is a photo of me playing piano when I was barely one years old. My
mom and dad were the ones who gave me musical training from an early age. Then I started taking cello lessons at the Special School for Gifted Children in my home city of Saint Petersburg when I was six.

What was the first tune(s) you learned?

One of the first tunes I learned was a Russian folk song “It’s Not the Wind” that my mother sang to me as a lullaby when I was little. I recently wrote a set of variations for solo cello based on this song and they are featured in my new album Soul Companion.

Is your family musical? Describe your family member’s musical interests and abilities.

Yes both of my parents are very musical, even though they both had careers outside music. My mother plays piano and my father plays several instruments quite well, and has been my biggest musical influence since I remember myself. Apart from being a physician, he had a rock band and I grew up surrounded by all kinds of music from classical to American and English rock, jazz, French and Italian pop, you name it.

Which famous musicians do you admire?

Names that come to mind right away are Sting, Rostropovich, Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald… I get transported by their music.

What are your fondest musical memories? In your house? In your neighborhood or town?

Listening to different music on an old reel-to-reel with my dad: ABBA, Boney M, Joe Dassin, Mireille Matieu… Hearing the cello for the first time on an old record that I had been given to me as a birthday gift. Attending my first concert at the St. Petersburg Philharmonia in my home city when I was six…

Were you influenced by old records & tapes? Which ones? I

I partially answered the question earlier, but to add to that, later, when I was about ten or eleven, I got my hands on bootleg tapes (this music was not officially available in the Soviet Union) of such bands as Led Zeppelin, Deep Purple, Pink Floyd,
Eric Clapton, my favorite Russian band Akvarium… I spend most of my early teens practicing blues guitar rather than cello, but I think in the long run it has given me the versatility and helped expand my musicianship beyond classical music.

Who are your favorite musicians? Groups? CD’s? Since you are multicultural, you may have more varied likes/dislikes. Describe your own musical ambitions.

As I said before, I’ve been exposed to all sorts of music as a kid. For example, Italian pop music has had a deep impact on me since I was about five. It’s something about the Italian language and the music that creates the magic. I believe the music of the Italian language itself has defined Western music with its beautiful cadences and inflections. My ambitions? One of my biggest goals is to bring my music and share the cello with as many listeners around the world as possible. I know I can make pretty much anyone fall in love with the sound of the cello, given the opportunity. I have thousands of fans in countries I’ve never even visited or performed in, such as Turkey or Argentina, where thousands of people share my videos and Spotify tracks, giving each other musical gifts. That’s the biggest reward for me as an artist, beyond how many albums I sell on iTunes or any kind of formal recognition. I would also like to continue and further my explorations in other genres and collaborations with artists of other disciplines: dance, film, spoken word, you name it. And my ultimate goal is to create my own musical voice that I will be remembered for, making a difference in the world by fighting for peace and reconciliation through art and music.

Have you been in competitions? Any prizes?

I do have a few prizes, but I never did well in competitions in general. I find something very disconcerting and discouraging about going out there and being judged by colleagues and peers. I believe art is meant to be enjoyed by people and not judged by a small group of people that have been deemed to have the right to judge art.

Where do you perform in public? Describe those occasions? Concerts, radio, TV?

In 2014 only, by the end of December, I will have given over 200 public performances and appearances on 3 continents.
That includes concerts in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Chicago, Miami, New York, Paris, London, Lucerne, Bern, Gdansk, Stockholm, appearances on National Public Radio, WFMT, WBEZ, impromptu performances in American Airlines Terminal at O’Hare, in flight, at Willis Tower and John Hancock building in Chicago, at the Transamerica Pyramid in San Francisco, a large number of corporate concerts and presentations as a speaker and performer, collaborations with members of Lyric Opera of Chicago, Joffrey Ballet, reading a play with members of Steppenwolf Theater Company, and the list goes on…

How do you balance your music with other obligations – mate, children, job?

My music is my job and my life. I am raising a 10-year-old son and he will always be the number one priority in my life. That means I have to tailor my career around his needs. That also sets limitations on my travels during his school year (he has been the best companion on my world travels all over the world during his vacations since an early age) but on the flipside, it compels me to do more creative projects locally in Chicago. And it’s really a fantastic challenge because I must remain creative and come up with new projects all the time to keep the Chicago audience excited, since I can’t play the same stuff for them over and over again, like I would on a concert tour. So it’s a blessing from any angle you look at it.

I always wonder how it works for many expats – having spent most of adult your life in the USA – how do you feel about your own country. That might be hard, right?? I guess I am asking also would you prefer staying here in the USA no matter what (If yes or no, why…)

Yes, at this point I consider USA my home, even though my parents still live in Russia. I am very grateful to Russia and its people for many things I have inherited: its art, literature, music, culture, legacy in sports and science. But at the same time there are many things that I have always had hard time coming to terms with and which have been the reason why I chose to remain in the United States and raise my family here.

You all-time favorite music – listening and playing?

I love any kind of music where there is room for improvisation. It could be anything: blues, rock, Arabic or African music, really anything that gives you full artistic freedom. I love classical music too, naturally, but it’s a different kind of love, the definition of freedom in classical music is very different.

How is the Russian community in Chicago (websites, amount of people etc).

The Russian-speaking diaspora in Chicago encompasses a much larger group than just Russians from Russia. It also includes many people from Ukraine, Belorus, Lithuania, many other republics of the former Soviet Union, Jewish emigrants, and even many people from other countries of the former so-called Eastern Block who had been forced to study Russian back in the Soviet Days. All of those people have one thing in common: being able to appreciate the tremendous amount of art and culture that has been shared through the Russian language, and that can hopefully offset at least some of the damages that had been brought to those people and their families by the Soviet system… As I mentioned before, I strongly believe that art’s biggest mission is to heal and bring people together.

Anything else you would like to share with us?

My new album Soul Companion has just been released on the Blue Griffin label and features my original music, several compositions by award-winning contemporary composers as well as my own arrangement for solo cello of Sting’s music. You can learn more about the album and download it on iTunes and Amazon from my website below. My next performance in Chicago is at the PianoForte Foundation on Sunday November 9th also find additional information and tickets at my website. Also please join me on Facebook, YouTube, Google+ and Twitter, I will be happy to hear from all of you!

Official Website: www.ianmaksin.com
YouTube Channel: www.youtube.com/leftseat75
Facebook FanPage: www.facebook.com/cellomaxx
Twitter: www.twitter.com/IanMaksin
Google+: www.plus.google.com/+IanMaksin;

Jess Yliniemi from Minnesota, USA Runs A Healthcare StartUp TestPlus in Finland

Jess, could you tell us a short story of your life i.e where are you from, what’s your educational background, what do you do now and where?

I was born and raised in Minnesota to Finnish and Norwegian descendents. My Great Grandfather was born in Muonio and my mother’s parents are from Oulu. One grandmother is from Tromso. I traveled most of the USA as a Construction Manager building High Rises and Hotels and then wanted to rediscover my roots so applied and was accepted to the International Business program at Haaga Helia in Helsinki and have now graduated and started a Healthcare company named TestPlus.

What do you enjoy most about Finland compared to the USA, now when you have more experience living there, how’s the quality of life compared to USA or other countries/places where you may have worked/lived?

Finland is very clean. The transportation system is very efficient and convenient. People live a high quality of life.

Usually there are some negatives, what are the ones for Finland that really stand out for you personally? What do you miss most about USA?

I miss my friends and family in the USA and around the globe but Skype has been helpful.

Do you feel Finland is a good place for you as an entrepreneur/startups right now? Are there any countries expats like you might like better in your opinion such as USA or some other European countries (entrepreneurs? WHY?)

Finland is an interesting place for Startups. The location globally is excellent.

Do you go out a lot – hobbies? Or is everything about work/study right now?

It has been mostly work. Founding a startup seems 24/7. I have made time for fishing and meeting friends.

What’s the economic climate like in Finland, how would you compare it to USA – especially for a start-up? Why?

Finland uses a different approach to economics. One example is that scholarships are awarded at graduation instead of prior to starting school. The Government programs have the same approach and reimburse costs. This makes it easier for bigger companies and more difficult for Startups.

How does the work/study culture differ from USA? (any aspect like clothing, customs, women, manners, food, alcohol, hygiene, schools, work etc)

There isn’t a lot of variety regarding purchaces. Most places have only a few options for clothing styles, food and drinks but I have noticed more “flair” since moving here

Do you think your career/studies would be the same in the USA – or does this work better for you? Either way, please explain more.

Starting a business here has worked out well so far as TestPlus is a part of the GE Healthcare Innovation Village in Helsinki.

Is there any other advice you would like to offer new expat startups arrivals at Helsinki area? What helped you – or who helped you?? Are there any resources you would like everyone to know?

Be passionate about your business and product. There will be naysayers no matter where in the world a business is started, but if you truly believe in your product/service it can happen. This helps form the direction of a company

Tell us more about your startup – where do you want to take it?? Who are the users?? What are/were the main obstacles and what surprised you and what not?? Anything you wish to change in the Finland startup scene or venture capital/angel networks?

TestPlus is developing home health testing. Our vision is to be a global leader in providing high quality accurate products and services that are beneficial to everyone and anyone in the world.

Are you willing to help other expat owned startups even with a little advice now and then – sometimes the 30 min means more to someone one can ever imagine?

I am open to discuss and can be found on LinkedIn.

https://www.facebook.com/jess.yliniemi

http://fi.linkedin.com/pub/jess-yliniemi/53/a/25

Andrey Moraru – America’s Got Talent Semi-Finalist Talks About His Art & Life

I kind of get a kick of America’s Got Talent TV-show. Three of the 4 judges are not American – two are Europeans (UK and Germany) and one is originally Canadian. Well, I guess that is America even if many Americans have issues with immigration – that is both the history and the present of the USA. Andrey Moraru is a young European whose art really touched me, not to mention he is easy on the eye as Heidi Klum pointed out. This young Ukrainian takes his art seriously. Let’s find out how he ended at AGT. Andrey has a beautiful soul and it shows in his art. I wish him all the success in his future.

Please introduce yourself.

My name is Andrey Moraru, I am a citizen of Ukraine but I was born in Moldova.
Right now I live in United States in the City of Angels – Los Angeles.

Recently (Aug 2014), I finished my experience at America’s Got Talent TV-show (AGT). Going into it I wasn’t thinking much of the entire deal. What I’ve learned shortly after was that while many of us have preconceived opinions about “Talent” shows on TV, it is impossible to predict what ends up happening. Casting people work hard at picking talent out of thousands of contestants to display a truly strong level of skill and expression. And until you yourself go through the experience you can never fully know what it is that you are watching. One of my favorite artists still on the show is Mara Justine. I find her very skillful at singing but also very talented as a performer. Her voice makes me energized and motivated. (Kaisa’s comment: a 12 -year girl with an amazing voice).

I do find it funny that 3 out if 4 judges are not American but I do think it doesn’t really matter because at the end of the day we are all people and we all share many of the same opinions. It’s been very interesting to see the TV side of show business AGT is an extremely functional machine that grows and morphs as it moves forward. They book the biggest stages in the world for the televised broadcast and attract millions of viewers.
I think this show can present a great opportunity for any artist taking part in it. At the end of the day if you don’t like something you don’t have to watch it.

What does your family do and where are they now?

My parents live in Moldova. I have an older brother and right now he lives in Kiev, Ukraine. I also have many cousins in Moldova but I have never met more than half of them!
My Mother, Tatiana Dmitrieva is a retired accountant who worked in our town’s government offices taking care of wide range of responsibilities starting with making sure people received their salaries/pensions and finishing with giving out government sponsored trips to summer camp for kids and Sanitoriums of Healing for adults.
My father, Boris Moraru is a multi-talented man. Skillful veterinarian and wine maker, house builder and musician who plays piano, accordion and guitar. An army officer and a wrestler in the past.
My brother Serghey, presently works as accountant for an international company in Kiev. His working credits include “Deloitte” which is a multinational audit/tax/consulting firm. He’s a talented piano player and a skillful photographer.
I love them all very much and miss them everyday. I ‘ve only had a chance to go home once a year – or less – in past 9 years since moving to America at the age of 18 by myself.

My Grandmother Claudia was a very special person. I cannot say enough good things about her. She dedicated her life to help my mother to raise me and my brother by always making food, waking us up and getting us ready for school; teaching us useful things about the land and how to grow plants.

How on earth did you end up doing hand balancing – it is not like an average person wakes up and decides this is what I will do when I grow up. How did you study this??

No one in my family was ever involved with the Circus. I am the first one. True Art however in its many forms was always greatly appreciated by my parents. They encouraged us to recognize real Art and ignore pre-digested, toxic pop culture of the early 90′s that filled TV screens after the fall of Soviet Union with horrible music and bad examples of what a famous entertainer should be.
At one point when I was around 7 years old my mother handed me the book about a boy from Crimea who had incredible talent for painting at a very young age. This boy adored and was incredibly inspired by the works of acclaimed painter by the name of Aivazovskiy whose paintings always reflected his love for the sea and it’s moving/breathing waters. Water is the hardest thing to draw because it’s always moving. Aivazovskiy was master at painting the blue waters of the Black Sea that washed the shores of Crimea.

I loved the book and it inspired me tremendously to start to learn how to draw. I didn’t go to school to learn though. One day I just picked a piece of paper and a pencil and began to experiment with what it could do. This simple act of trying grew into years long “love affair” with drawing and painting. I would bring my notepad everywhere I went and often spent my time at school drawing during classes. I got into a lot of trouble for missing out on the material given to us and once I missed what the teachers were explaining for the first few classes. I fell behind quite a lot and never quite regained the momentum of learning the knowledge that was shoved down our throats whether we wanted it or not. And thus, my long journey into art world was first firmly established.

I wasn’t fanatically drawing and learning how to improve for any kind of monetary or material gain like adults would. All I dreamed about was for my drawings to one day to come alive and fly off the page.
A year or so later my mother gave me another book the title of which was “Circus Comes To Town”. The book was written by an acclaimed Soviet clown Boris Vyatkin. The story captivated me and impacted my mind in a strong way because I could relate to so much of what I was reading about Boris’s life as a child. His real parents died when he was very young. His cruel foster parents turned his life into a living hell by beating him. He was forced to clean shoes in the streets for money which they kept to themselves when he got home in the evening. His hopeless situation started to change once the Circus came to town. The Circus totally won over his heart with its alternative lifestyle full of wonder, travel and excitement. The change in his life began to manifest almost immediately.
After reading this book, something started to change in me as well. Here was a real story of a young kid just like me who was now living the dream. If he could do it, so could I. I wanted to be free from anything that did not feel natural to my soul- from all artificial measures of my place in society such as the public education system.

At the time (and to this day) living conditions were very harsh in my home town and everywhere in the country. Nearly everyone was poor because everybody kept their money in a Central Bank of Soviet Union. After the Union was no more, the bank didn’t exist either. EVERYBODY lost all their money. Suddenly there were borders established everywhere. You saw them where before there was none. One formerly gigantic country became dozens of separate states that had no currency of their own, no constitution, no president, no laws in place. Everything in terms of governing systems had to be built from scratch. With no oversight from higher headquarters, there were literally “dog fights” for power in every new post. The dark shadow of the mafia and criminal gangs was rising fast all over the place. So in a situation like that there was hardly any room for dreams as you can imagine. As citizens of Moldova we couldn’t go anywhere in the west without first having to obtain a visa and this rule remains enforced to this day. And if it couldn’t get any worse, in 1991 when I was only 6 years old, tiny part of Moldova where we lived decided to separate itself from the rest of the country. After short conflict with casualties on both sides, the region established itself as Transdnistrea.
Transdnistrea to this day remains unrecognized by global community as official state. So basically it does not officially exist!
However, luckily I was too young to be bothered by all these facts as imposed limitations. The little town of Pervomaisk, where I was growing up, was embraced in the arms of Nature. We had a tiny forest, a river and some hills to explore as kids. We fully took advantage of this beauty.
I loved the seasonal changes: Autumn, Winter, Spring and Summer were times of opportunities to learn, to feel and to explore wider reaches and riches of the world I found myself seemingly out of nowhere. I still can’t remember the day I became conscious.
My earliest memories are from the time when I was sick with Hepatitis B, 4 years old at the hospital with my mother who didn’t want me to be there by myself and stayed the entire two months with me.

Was it hard to move from your experiences to ones nobody had any experience? Would you agree that most success can be traced to people you model?Who were your models? You have to be very dedicated to do something you do. It requires so many different skill sets – seems like you’d have to be super flexible, good dancer, artistic…and what are you chances of getting hurt??

When I was 8 y.o. our parents bought VCR and a colored TV. It was huge luxury and soon we had few video tapes with movies like Best of the Best, Mortal Kombat and Shootfighter with Bolo Yeung. Chinese martial artist who started with Bruce Lee in “Enter The Dragon”.

It is when I watched those movies that I started to really feel interested in exploring what my body could do and this my journey into the far inner and outer reaches of the body began in full swing. At my school during that time I was particularly bullied by two individuals who I was scared of all the time. They would just shower me with fear that paralyzed my thought process and my body.

Now, after I watched those martial movies again and again and saw good guys winning over most ruthless and fearsome opponents it occurred to me that I could be like them and protect myself from the threats I had to deal with daily. And so I started stretching like they did in those movies, started trying acrobatic elements(which I learned how to do back flip by myself on the soft ground covered with grass in my backyard) and then I approached my friend Miroslav who had tremendously mischievous spirit to practice stick fighting with me.

After couple of months of getting hit and hitting back all the time the final drop into my cup of courage was added.My entire body overflowed with confidence.So, I decided to settle the matters that needed to be settled at school. I challenged both of my opponents to a fight after classes were over one day.It generated a lot of buzz throughout the school. I had zero doubt in myself.When everyone finally gathered on the football field behind the school, the two of them and i were put facing each other with a “referee” in the middle.When I was asked if I’d fight,I replied immediately a firm “YES”! Surprisingly, or shall I saw non surprisingly, both of my opponents refused to accept the challenge and were whistled off the field in shame. That was my first real triumph overcoming my fears that haunted me for years.
Now because of that I started to believe in myself more than ever before and continued my self-initiated fighter training. My friend Miroslav, to whom I owe recognition for the change in my beliefs about myself and gratitude for being my sparring partner, unknowingly had another surprise for me In store: He was attending local Circus Studio!

So that summer I expressed my desire to parents to let me join the studio and let me study Circus arts.After a slight hesitation they agreed. The teacher/founder’s name at the studio was Alexander Craciun. Both his sons were Circus Artists.
In my first month I witnessed something very interesting. Alexander’s son Genya came back home to visit and stopped by the studio to train. Once there, he hopped on his hands and much to my compete surprise and awe displayed a series of balancing elements while on his hands. I could not believe what I witnessed and decided right then and there that of all the disciplines and genres in Circus, THAT’S what I wanted to be doing!
So that’s how I found my model,teacher and mentor.Ibecame involved with Artistic lifestyle and that’s how I found out that I wanted to be a hand balancer.

From that point on I spent 4 years of persistent training dedicated to stretching, strength building, balance understanding and overall acrobatic and juggling skill acquisition. 5 days a week, 10 months out of the year. Since age 11 I was on the mission to become Circus artist. One of the strong reasons for that was the fact that being in Circus offered..the chance to travel to foreign lands. I couldn’t possibly submit to the idea of living in one place and doing the same thing every day to just survive another day because someone I didn’t know, somewhere messed up the living and social situation for me , my family, my friends and my people. As a result we are shoved into a box and forced to work from sun up to sun down just to have food on our table.
Don’t get me wrong, it worked for the first 14 years of my life because that was the time of getting acquainted with the world around me and learning its ways. But, it wouldn’t be acceptable much longer after that and after hearing my teacher’s stories about great Circus Artists out there who were living their dream It inspired me to keep going until I reached my destination. And so my biggest desire from that point on was become free and independent of boundaries that the location of where I was born imposed on me. More than that I wanted to create something incredible. A work of art that would inspire others the same way I was inspired and driven to conceive such idea.
After each day at school I had a short break and then would continue on with my day by riding my bike to he Circus Studio which happened to be located in the near where my school’s stadium was and where all kids went to for play after school. I remember watching them being care free and playing ball in the sun. I always wanted to join them instead of the intense 4 hour training session that always laid ahead. But, I knew in my heart that i had to think about the future and in order to achieve my goals I had to go practice. And so I went… often with heavy heart.

Typical training day would go like this: First we would all stretch for half an hour working on all kinds of flexibility. We would stretch shoulders, wrists, elbows, knees, lower back and bridge position, three different kinds of splits, pure flexibility and we would often do many of those stretches in groups sitting on top of each other depending on the kind of stretch we were doing. After 30 minutes of stretching, depending on the genre that any particular student picked we would practice our specialty for another two hours and then after that would pick up on juggling and acrobatics(our teacher always emphasized the importance of being a well rounded Circus artist who could do many things at once rather than having one particular skill set.
At the end of each training session we would have half an hour of conditioning of all kinds. Rings, parallel bar, push ups, pull ups and six pack conditioning. After all that was done we would stretch for a few more minutes and the day at the studio was over. We were allowed to go home.
The chances if getting hurt ways exist but were taught to be extremely careful at all times and injuring ourselves was never on our minds. We were rather always thinking of ways to get better every day at all those things that we were training to learn.

Workwise – how do you see working as a hand balancer affecting your personal life??

Being Circus Performer have definitely made strong impact on my personal life. It is totally different now from the kind of life I had in Moldova growing up and it took me places I would have never thought it would.

This lifestyle doesn’t come without sacrifices.What to some may look like an exciting life as an entertainer, without proper balance of family, friends and a loved one, can be a serious challenge. It takes constant hard work at perfecting your Art- maintaining and improving your skill. I don’t ever stay in one place long enough to make any kind of long term friends at all. I couldn’t really imagine that’s how my life would be like. Anyone who thinks that life in show business is a dream come true, until you experienced it for yourself in all it’s shapes and forms, you don’t really have any idea what exactly you’re getting yourself into. However, it does present unbelievable opportunities if you are willing to work hard and work smart. – You can turn your dreams into reality.

When you think about life in Moldova/Ukraine – do you think you ever go back there to life there full time?

If you ask me what I would like people to appreciate about my art and or my country Moldova, I would say I don’t want to try to make you appreciate anything about me or what I do or where I come from.
I would only point out that I’m continuously searching for more and more sincere ways to express myself through the language of my body where words spoken are not things heard but things seen. Basically my goal has always been to help people feel emotions like strength, awe, love and just happiness of being alive.
I have much love for my country and it’s people. If you live in the West and never experienced what it’s like growing up in a small village town, you may have missed out on important experiences of being one with Nature and it’s creations. Ever present poverty and a sense of failed infrastructure would give you the chance to appreciate little things of life and the idea of what it’s like being limited in all the things that present western lifestyle offers it’s consumers.

That idea is very simple: We only need so much money and so many things in order to live. Mounting complications of modern living and the need to “make it in life” don’t make anything easier. On the contrary it affects people’s psyche to the point where we forget why we are here in the first place. It is to follow our excitement. What makes things easier is YOUR OWN idea of success and YOUR OWN definition of happiness. As long as it does not harm anyone around you, you should be able to determine for yourself what it is you need in life to keep yourself happy.

When I think about first 15 years of my life that I spent in Moldova and next 4-5 years in Ukraine, those were some of the fondest memories I have of my early life. The big part of having SO many amazing memories was probably because I filtered out many things that bothered adults. I only chose positive things about it. Our people are survivors of the social, political and psychological catastrophe that tried to reshuffle and reprogram our minds over the course of last 200 years with ideas of communism, cult of personality, dominance, and artificially imposed morals.At the end, in the early 90′s, the explosion of those systems of thought in the form of fall of the Soviet Union which ushered in the beginning of a new era of rebuilding from scratch which lasted for 20 years until the first sign of trouble during so called Orange Revolution in late 2004. Most recently is the troubling events of the overthrow of former regime in Kiev which sent the Ukraine and it’s neighboring counties into a spiral of unfolding unrest and insecurity about an uncertain future.
In my opinion, we as people must start to educate OURSELVES in political sciences, morals, justice and rightful use of law. Only by knowing what is right and just ourselves can we then understand, agree or disagree with our elected leaders.
In my heart I feel like after all the travels, all of the loud and colorful lifestyle of show business I’ll be coming back to my country to lead a simple lifestyle just like the one I started with and be at peace.
I miss simple things of life but am willing to sacrifice many things because there’s still many ideas that I have to bring to life!

What is your favorite food/s and drink??

I’ll say red borsch, cherries, my father’s grapes and as far as drinks I would say pure tasty water that I used to drink back home and haven’t ever found similar taste anywhere else!

What are your favorite cities/places in the world – it seems you may have to travel quite a bit?

I have been fortunate to travel around the globe and even though there’s still many places I’d like to go to here are few places that stand out in my memory the most: Paris, France. Monte-Carlo, Monaco. Brussels, Belgium. Montreal, Canada. Berlin, Germany. Seattle, Washington-US, San Diego, California-US. I really enjoyed visiting these places and always felt special spending my time there because of the people, food, scenery and a great atmosphere of adventure these cities offered.

If I gave you unlimited means and you could wherever you want and do what ever you want? What would you do..

I would first buy all the books that I wanted to buy but couldn’t afford. I would give my parents enough money they wouldn’t have to work to make money – only out of joy and knowing that they have more than enough to survive. I would travel to all the remote places I haven’t visited yet. I would gather together the best minds in the world from as many industries as possible to rework and change world’s education system. To create a new system of raising children where they wouldn’t be just their parent’s children but society’s children as well. I would like to see that we as people would start growing closer together rather than being millions of separate families. That system would include facilities where kids would spend their days with older and wiser teachers, where their primary talents could be recognized from early on. They could develop in the direction that they naturally lean toward (and not what the National Education Board thinks everyone should study). I would make it so that parents, after giving birth to a child could go on with accomplishing their goals in life and where they would know that their children would be taking care of by the newly established system. The earlier we start seeing the benefits in the ideas of equality, partnership, sharing and helping one another as opposed to ideas of competition, survival of the fittest, property acquisition, vertical power and society divided by borders and classes, the sooner our entire world will change for the better.
So…that’s how I would spend any unlimited funds….

In general, what makes you happiest in life…for some people it is career, some it is family, free time, challenges?

It isn’t one thing in particular but rather a combination of things. I feel happy finishing another artistic creation, I feel happy knowing my family members are in good health. I feel happy any chance to go out to the Nature – forests, lakes, deserts or the ocean. When I’m out in nature I feel more myself than ever before. Oh, good food makes me happy as well!!! I like challenges. They always come up exactly when they should and it’s my duty to overcome them. Without challenges we often forget to appreciate what we already have -going through difficulties teaches us to stay alert and ready because nothing in life lasts.
EVERYTHING comes and goes and as it inevitably does, we learn to accept that fact and have different, more realistic approach to our lives.

Could you share with us what are your plans for the future personally and professionally? I have no clear understanding how long you can keep performing something like this…it seems physically very taxing.

As far as my plans for the future… it’s hard to answer that question for certain. I have things I would like to see happen, yes.
I plan to keep evolving as an Artist and a human being and we shall see where that takes me and everyone around.

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Jaakko Piipponen, Finland born Remote Garage Founder in Texas

Please introduce yourself. Tell us a little about where you are from originally and who you are.

My name is Jaakko Piipponen, and I’m from Finland. I studied in Helsinki School of Economics with study abroad at the University of Southern California and got a degree of B.S. in Finance. I worked briefly in investment banking in London, but now I’m building my 2nd startup Remote Garage which does storage on demand.

When and why did you move to the USA? Did you move alone?

I’ve been travelling between Finland and US since 2010, and this time I’ve been here since July last year. My fiancé (USA) goes to medical school in San Antonio, and why I ended up in Texas.

What do you enjoy most about San Antonio, now when you have more experience, how’s the quality of life compared to Finland, Los Angeles or London?

Everyone seems to be really friendly and welcoming here in Texas. In San Antonio, cost of living is probably half or less what I had in LA or London, and yet it still has plenty of things to do.

Usually there are some negatives, what are the ones for San Antonio that really stand out for you personally?

Only downside I can think of is that the city is not really walkable or have advanced public transportation system, which is something I got used to in Helsinki and London.

Do you feel San Antonio is a good place for you as an entrepreneur right now? Are there any areas expats like you might like in the USA in your opinion (entrepreneurs/startups WHY?

San Antonio has some significant advantages if you’re working in the some of the city’s strong areas such as cyber security. I strongly feel that new startup hubs should not try to outright copy Silicon Valley, but instead they should find out what are their own strengths and embrace them. Marc Andresseen discussed about this New York Times recently.
I’d also add that since the cost of living is still so low, it might attract more talented people here over time who get fed up with the high costs associated with the more typical tech hubs.

How would you rate the public transport? What are the different options? Do you need to own a car?

You must own a car to get anywhere at all. Public transportation is passable in and around the focal points of the city, such as the UT Medical Center, but it typically takes 2-3 times longer to get anywhere with a bus compared to driving around.

Which are the best places/suburbs to live in San Antonio as an expat in your limited experience?

Popular areas tend to be around Alamo Heights, Stone Oak and if you’re working on anything health-related, the Medical Center. Downtown is an up-and-coming area too, as written recently in WSJ.

Do you go out a lot – hobbies? Or is everything about work right now?

Don’t really go out at this point since building startup keeps me busy, but the downtown and the River Walk are nice places to go out when we do. There are also some great parks north of the city, such as Friedrich Park, which are great for some hiking.

What’s the cost of living compared to Los Angeles? What is cheap or expensive in particular?

Pretty much everything is cheaper, and the housing costs in particular. I think San Antonio’s competitiveness in that area will be emphasized even further when they complete building of the Google Fiber here.

What are the locals in San Antonio like; or do you feel you mix mainly with other expats?

I have met none of the expats yet but only locals who are very friendly.

Did you think it is easy meeting people/other startups and making friends in San Antonio?

I just Googled “tech startups San Antonio” when I got here, and found the #1 place for startups here called Geekdom. Once you get the really cheap membership for the co-working space, you’re able to meet pretty much anyone working with startups in the area.

What’s the economic climate like in San Antonio, how would you compare it to the LA/Finland? Why? How does the work culture differ from Finland?

The city is growing really fast, and you can see construction everywhere (though luckily not too much on highways anymore, since they seem to be in pretty good condition).
People seem to work longer hours compared to Finland, and it seems there are less holidays here. Then again, with startups it seems to be pretty similar, since everyone has to work with all they have got or they face the risk of going under.
Compared to Los Angeles, the culture seems fairly similar or perhaps a little more relaxed.

Did you have any misconceptions about Texas that have turned out to be super wrong….or vice versa, you thought something will be great and it is exactly the other way around?

Since my fiancé is from here, I kind of knew what to expect. I find it interesting how people here are more proud of their state compared to Californians. Perhaps I still hoped to see a few more ranches and cows, but they tend to be farther away from the city.

Do you think your career (business) would be the same in Finland/LA – or does this work better for you? Either way, please explain more.

There’s a reason this is called the “land of opportunities”, so I’m confident it’s the right country to be in. People are used to seeing new entrepreneurs popping up and trying new things, and the welcome has been just phenomenal.
I don’t know how this is in Finland, but the market opportunity there is so much smaller I could not possibly start there. I really admire those who choose to stay there and can pull off something big, but at the same time it’s likely that some of the people choose to stay there and miss opportunities.

What are your favorite restaurants/bars in San Antonio – why ?

Rudy’s for BBQ, Taqueria Datapoint for Mexican, Thai Bistro for Thai. I generally just Yelp things and try to go and explore new places.

Is there any advice you would like to offer new expat arrivals or contemplating a move to San Antonio – especially for a startup??

Consider carefully whether here’s something that can give you an edge. If it’s something related to cyber security, telecom or cloud, this is probably a very good place to start. At the same time, SA is not a “startup hub” quite yet, and for some industries it might make more sense to start from San Francisco, NYC, or LA. San Antonio is also close to Austin, which is emerging as the hotbed for new startups in TX.

If there are other startups that you would like to connect within the European community – who would they be?

I’m sure there are, but on the top of my head I cannot really say if they’re in the “European community” or not. In general, I’d love to meet people in the delivery, storage, and real estate spaces.

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Austin – David Drake, The Soho Loft & Crowdfunding with Swedish Globetrotter

David and I have many mutual acquaintance since we both lived years in NYC (now I am in Austin, TX) – he is Swedish and I am Finnish. hasEuroCircle team already interviewed Jilliene Helman and Gary Spirerwho are both involved with the crowdfunding circles so adding a Swede to the crowdfunding mix seems appropriate.

Please introduce yourself; tell us a little about where you are from originally and who you are.

My name is David Drake. I was born and raised in Sweden. My grandparents are from Denmark so I spent all the summers in Copenhagen growing up. I was getting B grades in languages. Therefore I got annoyed as a teenager and decided excel in languages. My interests are also in sports. I was a judo champion at a very young age in Scandinavia. There must have been maybe 15 different sports that I used to do. In one time or another. Most likely my short height as a kid made me over Excel and over compensate in sports. However after college I did not return to any sports.

I was a good – and shy – kid in high school. I got good grades and rarely went out. For instance, I always vacuumed the house once a week just to say thank you to my parents.

Given your background what and why did you end up studying – how did you choose your university and why the USA?

I was accepted to Brown University on full scholarships but since it didn’t have business studies I decided to change to American University in DC (these were full scholarships). I had an early on fascination with business and international finance. My MBA was done in DC as well as George Washington University which was a Dual Masters program allowing me to get an MBA in International Finance & a Masters in international affairs and law.

I have also realized that Wall Street was the center of finance and thus I want to study in the US.

So what do you do now – what takes most of your time professionally?

My family office has investments in different industries and companies globally. I helped found two Angel Networks (Puerto Rico and FP Angels) and I’m on two angel networks like Bitcoin and the Chemical Angel Network. However today most of my time is spent on the media company called The Soho Loft. It focuses on social impact investing and we host 200+ finance focus conferences every year. See Www.thesoholoft.com/upcoming-conferences/s where you can meet and pitch investors on the spot.

I am also spending more time with a public relations and Investor Relations firm VictoriaGlobal.co as the chairman of the board. This is where we are looking for partners in Europe and MENA and I would ask readers to reach out to me at david@LDJCapital.com

In addition Victoria Partners is a 110 family office network with headquarters out of Knightsbridge, London that we own.

These things take up about 75 percent of my time while the latter allows me to travel as I have to visit the family office relationships we have globally. I have been in a different city every week for the last 3 years and now it is difficult for me to stop traveling because I like it.

Do you intend to stay in the USA for now and where is your favorite city in the USA?? Also, o you speak many languages in addition to English and Swedish which are related to each other?

Yes, I am staying in the US. We recently got engaged with the state government of Hawaii and Hawaii venture capitalist association. We are engaged with the International Fashion Show and International Film Festival in Hawaii with them so I will be spending more time there. It also makes sense for me to bring Asian investors of ours to meet tech and realty opportunities in Hawaii – we called this where the West meets the East. We are working with the Hawaii Venture Capital Association to launch their biggest event of the year this fall.

Meanwhile I have a place in Los Angeles with offices in New York. Most of my time is spent between Maui, New York, Los Angeles and Bellagio, Lake Como, Italy. The latter is my favorite place of all time.

My grandparents are Danish meanwhile Danish, Swedish and Norwegian are very similar languages. Yet again, I do come across a lot of Danish and Norwegians claiming that a lot of Swedes do not speak their language. Meanwhile in school I studied Spanish French and English. Yet my passion is Italian although I don’t speak it well at all.

So how is your personal life at this point? You travel a lot – how does that work for family? Where are you living right now and why?

I’m divorced the last two years so travel is something I actually enjoy now. As opposed to most people traveling, I can travel on my own accord and spend at least 1 week per trip. For instance, I am speaking at the European Business Angel Network in Dublin and they are flying me in. Ireland is close to my heart as I took my mom there 6 months ago and it is beautiful. This time I’m flying my father from Stockholm to go castle hunting after I speak in Dublin. The green hills of Ireland are just amazing. Yet my favorite places to work and visit are:

Bellagio, Lake Como
Maui
Bali
Maldives
Waiheke Island outside Auckland.

What do you like most about the job you do now the most – and what the least? What is a typical day for you right now?

I wake up between 3 to 5 am I do not sleep much. Life is too exciting. Emails and contract negotiation takes about 6 hours a day and another 4 hours of phone calls.

I write regularly for magazine like Forbes and WSJ so I spend a couple hours day writing. Over 100 publications get original articles from me. Www.TimesRealtyNews.com Is the latest investment we made on an online publication focused on real estate and crowd funding.

Last week we published a top 10 realty platform report. Dealing with repetitive tasks bores me but fortunately for me I have been able to build infrastructure in corporations to handle that.

How do you see your life evolve professionally and personally if it is up to you?

Fortunately it is up to me and I love to learn. I spent the last 30 years listening to people sharing their knowledge and I feel now that I’m in my 40′s and I can collect my own stories. My entrepreneuship bug started when I was 9 years old. I was selling cacti door to door that my mom collected for a school trip.

Today I collect people and stories. The knack becomes how to connect people and I feel that I’m a superconnector just like you are. The 100s of people working in my main investments provide me the infrastructure to run a conglomerate media company and the hundreds of events and articles I write allows me to meet and learn from thousands. That is so exciting. I get to interview anyone and learn from the best.

How would you describe your business model to someone who knows nothing about your life ?

I am a family office yet my passion investment The Soho Loft is a global finance media conglomerate focused on impact investors…. the work surrounds sharing and educating the world on how and what is being done in this arena.

What are the biggest risk factors for you professionally?

My reputation and lack of follow up are risk factors. Also having great partners is important so I encourage readers to reach out to me from this article.

How is your family in Sweden – what do your parents and siblings do?

My parents are retired in stockholm and they enjoy traveling with me.

What kind of European companies or entrepreneurs would you like to hook up with?

Currently we are acquiring and also hiring people in public relations and marketing. Area of this time would be of interest to also meeting and talk to new online marketing companies to see what they are doing better and faster.

We have had 600 events the last 4 years in finance and consequently 30,000 people have been attending. Companies that interest me would be firms that can monetize from the lead generation of companies we have had at please your events.

Partners would know how to monetize from relationships with the participants at our events. Here are some upcoming events

Please join me at the June 7, Los Angeles, Family Office event. Learn how to raised money from family offices.
http://thesoholoft.com/conferences/victoria-global-sponsors-capital-raising-core-workshop/

Newport Beach conference June 19
Leading Resources and Real Estate: Oil, Gas, Minerals and Real Estate
http://www.eventbrite.com/e/energy-oil-gas-crowdfunding-conference-i-tickets-11112819743

I. Nov 14 had $35 billion in assets under mgmt – sold out.
II. April 24 had ADIA, Trump, Mondrian and Delano Hotels with dozens of family office fly in – sold out.

You must buy the 100+ page Mega Trend report by TimesRealtyNews.com report when you are serious about real estate crowd funding. It will save you 150 hours of due diligence and research. The only report of its kind.

June 26 Yale Club in NYC Series B and C private equity investors event

http://thesoholoft.com/conferences/tsl-supports-epic-asia-2014/

What do you consider the worst thing about the Swedes compared to the USA – and vice versa?

I have been away for the last 25 years. However what I see is that the Swedes avoid confrontation. Whether that is good or bad remains to be argued. However I do not ail from this. Meanwhile I find myself being a quiet spoken American or loud European – depending where I am and who is listening

Crowdfunding – what do you think about it in Europe vs. USA?

it is a powerful on both continents but more so in the US. I track the laws changing by country and continent. These are things I write about. In 2012 I was part of arranging the first meeting me ever had with the SEC on crowdfunding for the crowd funding association that I help found. I was invited to the Champions of Change at the White House on the topic and represented the US commerce dept to EU on small and medium size business policy to rome and Brussels.

I would love to talk to medium size companies in your Europe looking to use crowd funding as a solution and lead generation through our publications and conferences globally.

We get family offices and private equity firms reaching out to us constantly and we’re also talking to investment banks.

If you have a choice to live your life how you want, money would not be an issue what so ever – where would you like to spend your life? Where do you think you would like to be in 10 years and why?

I am living it now and it is between Bellagio, new york, los angeles and Maui right now. Family office business makes me travel all over the world in addition to these cities. In 10 years I would like to continue to doing today- learning from people smarter that me and having dozens of more partners in Europe as brand ambassadors of VictoriaGlobal.co

Crowdfunding circles are full of people who have never worked in finance, raised money for themselves or others and they portray themselves as so called “experts” and speak at multiple events. The new crowdfunding “opportunities” have brought out many predators who appear “real” on the surface. How do you think that fact may affect any future legislation?

It should help industry by showing at all more people getting involved in this space. The transparency in crowd funding is beautiful because you will be able to weed out who is real and who is not. The crowd self police and we see this in the platforms operating on both continents.
(Kaisa: I am not at all convinced about self policing efficiency in the USA having looked at some – certainly not all – of the so called “experts” and listening to some of them speak. Culturally (Finland) I have an issue with people either making up their their credentials/background, success or misleading the “crowd” – but let’s hope the crowd will “self-police” more and more.)

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Helsinki – Alexandra Eude, Parisian Family’s 4 Years In Finland

Being a Finn myself I am always curious how any foreigners like living in there – the climate is tuff in the winter (the same as many states in the USA) and many Finns are sort of stand-offish at least on the surface. It is not a country for small-talk, hugs and kisses. You need to have some luck to meet the right people to include you in their circles. It is far easier to get at least good acquaintances in many other countries, Finns are great friends – once they let you in. They are also super conscious many times of not speaking perfect English…so they do not talk.

Alexandra, please introduce yourself to the readers? (When did you move to Finland and why, where did you move from- a short story who you are in a way, family, kids etc)?

My name is Alexandra Eude and I have been living in Helsinki for 4 years now. We moved to Finland because of my husband’s work (Nokia, now Microsoft) after living in London for four years before.

Finland is not my first expatriation, as I have lived 4 years in Brazil, 2 years in the USA and 4 years in the UK. We are all French and from Paris originally. I am what you call a Third Culture Kid.
I have 4 children, 3 girls and a boy, aged 8 to 17. They attend the International School of Helsinki. and have experienced the French school system as well as the British one.
Before moving to Helsinki, I use to work in the Marketing/Communication and New Product Development field. Since graduating from University, I have always been an active person and even with 4 children have always worked full time managing pretty well the career/family life balance. Well, that’s until I moved to Helsinki, where finding a job has just been impossible.

What do you enjoy most about Finland, now when you have more experience, how’s the quality of life compared to UK, France and Brazil since you have lived in all of them ?

Finland is a beautiful country in terms of nature. After 4 years here, I am still in awe in when looking at what surrounds me. Nature is omnipresent in our lives and being outdoors, whatever the weather, has really become a way of life. I don’t recall being so sensitive to nature before, and I guess our life in Finland has brought all of us back to the essentials: being simple, authentic… The country is very safe and I like the fact that my children can have so much independence and freedom without me worrying every 5 minutes. Everything is organized, clean, works well and usually on time. There are rules, and people respect them. Some times a bit too much, to the point of becoming rigid though!
I feel privileged to be able to bring up children in such an environment. It is so rare in our world today! I think the values my teenage children have been brought up in the past 4 years have clearly shaped the human beings they are now: honest, respectful of nature and people, and authentic.

Usually there are some negatives, what are the ones for Finland that really stand out for you personally? What do you miss most about “home” what ever that means to you?

It is very hard to bond with people here. It is not that they are not nice and helpful, but it is a non-emotional culture and more of a practical culture. What I mean by that is that if people don’t see what it will bring them personally, they do not see the interest in doing something for you. This is being reflected in the way they work too. They know their rights and won’t go the extra mile to do something if it goes beyond what they are entitled to do. This is why customer service is also an abstract notion here.

It is also very hard to establish contact with people who are rather reserved, don’t do small talk and actually prefer staying among their families and friends rather than opening their doors to new comers. especially if they come a different and unknown culture… Of course, not all of them are like that, but unless they have travelled a bit or lived abroad, that’s pretty much the kind of people you “meet” here.
I think that after 4 years, my neighbors just started waving at me from their cars as they leave. But that’s about it!! They have never chatted with me in the street or invited us. Actually, Finns don’t really invite to their homes. Something quite different from cultures like the one in Brazil, where the people are extremely warm and generous; or even the neighborhood we lived in London, where people came to us to introduce themselves and gave their number in case you needed anything.
Human contact, that’s what I miss the most! Thankfully, the International School of Helsinki has a tight and small community, where I have met some great friends. But the community is small, like Helsinki is small. So your network ends up being small too.

Do you feel Finland is a good place for you as an employee/entrepreneur right now? Are there any areas expats like you might like in Finland better ? (how was looking for work as a foreigner?? – guessing horrible unless you are techy – entrepreneurs? WHY?)

Finding a job as a foreigner in Finland is hard, very hard! Finns are not risk takers, and as a foreigner, you represent the unknown, a different mind-set and approach. Many would see this as an opportunity to bring in fresh blood and ideas to a business. But here, what they worry about is how that is going to change the way they do things, communicate between each other, which they are not too keen to change as it works well as it is.
I made the effort of learning the language for a while and studied 6 months of intensive Finnish and passed 2 levels out of the 6 you need to be “fluent”. But the language is so hard! I didn’t pursue, and maybe should have, but figured that by the time I would be considered employable, it might be time to leave Finland!
When I think about it, it would probably be the same in France. If you are a foreigner and do not speak French, it would be hard to find a job. But I was convinced that I would be able to apply in organizations where English is widely spoken and working environments are more relaxed, such as advertizing agencies. I had several interviews, but it never went very far: I was too different, didn’t speak the language well enough… I was scary!

I have thus worked on many projects and events for the French-Finnish Chamber of Commerce for example, being on the board of the International School of Helsinki or consulting in marketing and communications for the school too. But never got the chance to have a fixed job in an organization. That’s maybe what lead me to the idea of setting up my own business… In February 2014, and after 2 years of preparation work, I decided to set up my own service, based on the observed needs of all the people around me over those many years being expat, and launched an online daily-life sharing community website: www.sharelocaltips.com.

Setting up my business wasn’t too hard in terms of paper work. It was quick, simple and not very expensive. They have offices with people to help you review your business plan, advise you on the structure of your business, and all that in English. I think Finland is great for start-ups. However, once up and running, if you are not a local, that’s when it gets hard to get people’s trust, develop your business, establish a network. That’s the stage I am at now, and I find it very hard to establish contacts with people and to get support.

Do you think your career (business) would be the same in France – or does this work better for you? Either way, please explain more.

Not being able to have a “proper” job here has been the most painful part of living in Finland for me. I feel like my career has been still for the past 4 years. I however really hope my project managements and missions will be seen positively by my future employers. Creating my own business, even if it ends up not working, is also a big challenge and risk I was willing to take and I imagine that is an achievement in itself. I may have actually turned a negative situation into a positive one and grabbed the opportunity Finland was actually offering me.

How does the work culture differ from France? (health care, clothing, customs, women, manners, food, alcohol, hygiene, romance, school, family life etc)

Finns are reserved, so that means that they do not splash you in the face with signs of richness and advertizing. It can thus be quite tricky to know where to find things, and it is usually only once inside a store you realize what the shop has to offer! My website made even more sense when I went through this experience. If you don’t speak the native language, and you live in a country where not much is advertized or communicated, daily life and finding simple services that you can trust can be frustrating, confusing and require hours of searching through different sources of information.
Share Local Tips offered to be the one place where both expat word of mouth and cultural experience can be easily shared and found. I really wanted to offer daily life and practical info. But the website is dependent on people wanting to share. Not an easy task…

Do you go out a lot – hobbies? Or is everything about Family or Work right now?

We have not been out a lot in Helsinki: restaurant are outrageously expensive, for a quality of service or food that isn’t always worth the price paid. Plus babysitting and taxis to come home after a couple of drinks make an evening out very expensive.
We however have enjoyed many dinner parties at friends. People will tell you that life here is pretty quiet compared to other capitals. It has however been a great opportunity to re-focus on the family for us. So its hasn’t been that bad. I am however looking forward to our move back to London next summer, and going back to a more vibrant and outgoing life.

What’s the cost of living compared to France or other places you have lived in? What is cheap or expensive in particular?

Finland IS expensive. Everything is expensive with social taxes that are high on services and a VAT of 24%. You pay a lot of taxes, but I must admit that the money collected by the Finnish government is wisely used and all benefit from it through good quality transport, free access to excellent medical care and good local education (if you do not opt for private international education). Compared to countries like France, your contribution to society is worthwhile and visible.

Did you think it is easy meeting people and making friends in Finland? Finns tend to be more reserved with people and warm up slowly? How do your kids feel about living there? Do they speak Finnish at all.

My children know a little bit of Finnish, but very little. Most stores and services speak English, so actually the kids don’t need to make a huge effort to be understood. They have made little friends outside of their school community, even if signed up in skating or ballet classes outside of school. People are too shy and not very outgoing. We tried to introduce them to other Finnish children, but there was no small talk, so not much to start a conversation, especially if you are a teenager! My kids like Finland for the quality of life, but find it too cold (multiple meanings here!), and a bit too quiet.
10. What are the best places/suburbs to live in Helsinki area in your opinion?

There are several areas to live in Helsinki and the choice of one or the other depends on what you are looking for. You can choose to live downtown, near Kaivopuisto or in the Design District. They are mainly apartments, usually old ones but with a lot of charm, quite expensive but very central. Parking like in any other cities can be a challenge. But you get to benefit from the city life, which is not a vibrant as other capitals though.

Or you can choose to live a bit outside the city, in Espoo or east of Helsinki in Herttoniemi. There you will benefit from modern houses, most of the time, wonderful outdoor life, stunning views on the sea and archipelago, close by shopping centers. Espoo, and in particular the area of Nuottaniemi has been my favorite. Close to Iso Omena shopping center which will soon have the metro direct to Helsinki center, great transport links, beaches, shore paths for cycling, walking, and easy access to the sea, which frozen during winter, is a fantastic immense playground for the family!

Did you have any misconceptions about Finland that have turned out to be super wrong….or vice versa, you thought something will be great and it is exactly the other way around?

I have always been a girl of the South and not a big fan of cold weather. I was dreading the long Finnish winters, but was actually really surprised by how beautiful and wonderful it is! Finns say: “there is no bad weather, only bad clothing” and it is true. If you have the right gear, you can enjoy being outside all year long. My children loved being out playing in the snow after school, even if dark outside. I guess November and December are the toughest if snow hasn’t arrived. Days are really short and nature is not at its best. But if it has snowed, the white reflects light and really brightens your (short) days! Most people who have now left Finland and with whom I keep in touch, say they miss Finnish nature and winters the most. Incredible!

Another misconception I had was about meeting people. I am a very open person and love meeting new friends and discovering new cultures. I am quite social, never had any issue making new friends or networks and was convinced after my past experience in Brazil and in the UK, that that wouldn’t be a problem. I was quite surprised to see how much work it took to bond with locals. Today, I think I have 2 really good Finnish friends, but that’s about it!

Anything else you would like to share with us?? Choose freely.

Now that I know we will be moving back to London, I know that there will be many things I will miss from Finland. Nature will be the biggest. I have ticked all the bucket list items of must-dos in Nordic countries such as cross-country skiing on the frozen see, snow-shoeing in the Nuuksio Forrest, ice-dipping naked in the sea after a smoked sauna, celebrated Finnish Vappu (1st of May), Penkkarit (end of school for Grade 12s) and mid-summer day, have experienced life in a mökki (summer log house) on an island… I don’t think I have many regrets and that I have clearly made the most of my host country. I leave all this experience and traces on Sharelocatips for other to benefit from it!

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Rome – Sharon Moran, An Irish UnderGroundInsider in The Eternal City, Rome

I “met” Sharon online and found her fascinating – of course I just had to interview her. I loved how much I learned about Rome – thanks for being so thoughtful and really think what I asked about.

Sharon Moran, you are originally from Ireland, right? When did you move to Rome and why??

Yes, I’m Dublin born and bred. There were a few things that got me where I am now. I had worked in London for a few years as a professional singer with Universal Record Company, then toured Ireland singing 1940’s Jazz. Around that time I witnessed a dramatic thunderstorm in the hills of Tuscany while at a wedding which awakened Italy in my imagination. After that I became an Italo-phile and spent all my holidays there and became interested in the language. I decided to study and thought I’d learn Italian since I was hoping to own a home there later in life. It happened much quicker than anticipated! I did an Erasmus year as a mature student of 27 three years ago, and then found great writing and performing opportunities in Rome. So I decided to quit everything at home and go it alone in Italy. I never thought arriving in Italy a clueless student that I would end up making it my home. I left a long-term relationship and a house in Ireland. It was scary but I’m proud of trying to follow my heart. Especially since it led me to the deepest love of my life with my Roman man Frankie (Francesco) and job satisfaction.

What do you enjoy most about Rome, now when you have more experience, how’s the quality of life compared to Ireland or where ever you moved from?

I still need to get used to some things like the fact that I can bank on having a good summer, every summer in Rome. My quality of life is better in that I am more active socially and more confident. I enjoy the details that are normal to Italians but will always be appealing to me for not having grown up here. A morning cappuccino in the social hub of a Roman bar, trying a new local dish, a great concert at a wine festival, it’s all wonderfully alien to me. The beach life is fantastic in Rome, when all the locals head out to the sea at the weekends and enjoy good food and time with friends. I eat much healthier here as there is less emphasis on the takeaway/fast food culture and the weather cries out for fresh, simple food. The nightlife for those who love to dance and experiencing unique culture is definitely above Dublin in my opinion. I mostly enjoy the all-rounder effect of having found passionate love, a career worth smiling about and a new home from my childhood dreams.

Usually there are some negatives, what are the ones for Rome that really stand out for you personally? What do you miss most about “home” what ever that means to you?

Now I’m here a few years I feel more justified in complaining about some of the daily grinds in Rome! It’s chaotic. Traffic and beeping horns creep into your dreams at night when you live here. The metro system has two small lines that only intersect once, so planning a specific time to get somewhere if you’re taking public transport can be a mess. This disorganization bleeds into administration too; post, bills etc. You name it Italians are slow at it! This can make a lot of expats turn on their heels after a while and head home in search of ‘civilization’ again. The best thing is to plan things ahead of time and take it easy when things don’t work.
At times I miss the diversity and the modernity of Dublin. Also I miss the smaller size of my home city, where you can find a hash of live concerts on the same street on a Saturday night. My life is also tinged with a little sadness that I can’t have my family here for the ups and downs of life. But they are close to me in spirit at least (and when I nab them for Skype).

Did you feel Rome is a good place for you as an employee/entrepreneur right now? Are there any areas expats like you might like in Italy better ? (entrepreneurs? WHY?)

I’ve set out a career specifically tailored to Rome so for me it’s the best place to be right now. In the beginning it was trial and error. I started off like many others with odd jobs and English teaching. The level of fluent English is quite low in Rome and I’ve used that along with my Italian, knowledge about music, events and the expat lifestyle to carve out a niche for myself. Once I had a good base working as a museum guide in the beautiful Keats and Shelley English literature museum on the Spanish Steps, I set up my own website on the real Rome I had come to know www.undergroundinsider.com. Through the website I began a freelance writing career for English magazines and websites in Rome and I’m now in talks to become a travel correspondent for Italy. It’s such a treat to write about what inspires me in Rome.

I also used my experience as a vocalist. I started singing in a popular vintage Jazz club and then joined the band Etruskajazz www.facebook.com/etruskajazz, a lively mix of Jazz and Ska music. I then founded a duet with my lovely Roman Frankie (who is a bassist) called Two Man Big Band, (www.facebook.com/twomanbigband) through which I perform in some of the trendiest spots in town. It’s important to find what you’re good at and get even better.
Regarding other areas to start a career in Italy, I have heard many times that the north of the country is much more organized and business driven with a more European outlook than Rome. Places such as Milan and Turin might be a good option to try career-wise, but be aware that what you get in functionality in Italy you often loose in warmth and laid-back mentality of the people.

What are the best places/suburbs to live in Rome in your opinion?

This is a great question and one that many Rome newbies would like to know the answer to. It depends on your budget and what you’re looking for. If you plan a short stay or have a good budget by all means go for the picturesque Trastevere and wander the quaint (but touristy) cobbled streets every day. Those watching their budget go to the suburbs and pick a place close to the metro in Rome. From my experience the suburb of San Paolo is a good option, south of the city on a metro stop near to the recently trendy Via Ostiense with Roma Tre University and Testaccio which are areas full of bars and restaurants. It’s comfortable and not touristy with lots of expats, but then it’s not very pretty. San Giovanni is slightly better in my view, flanked by the ancient Roman city walls and a short walk from the Colosseum. The tree lined ancient walkway of Via Appia Antica is just around the corner. There is also a metro stop that brings you into the center, a great vintage warehouse and a huge outdoor club in the summer nearby. A friend of mine lives at Piazza Bologna, a popular area for student types as its right at a metro, with lots of buses, close-ish to the center with many shops, a few good bars and lively piazza life at night. Cool underground areas like San Lorenzo and Pigneto are great for experiencing real Roman nightlife and you’ll get a good deal rent wise but getting around for work and social life is difficult as there’s no metro nearby.

Do you go out a lot – hobbies? Or is everything about work right now?

Work is intertwined into my hobbies now. I write about my life trying new things and performing at trendy venues in Rome. As there’s always something to do in the city I try to get to new exhibitions, restaurants, film nights, concerts and clubs regularly. I’m a big fan of checking out the ‘occupied’ social centers in Rome; disused theatres, venues and warehouses taken over by caring, anti-commercialist young people who renovate and host the most eclectic event calendars in Rome. Because I do a lot of different things I do have to watch that I don’t loose touch too much with friends while I’m running about. I’m busy but happy. My new exciting hobby is our Italian country home, which needs a lot of loving care to get it into working order. Having lived in the city for quite a while I’ve now moved out to the rolling olive tree countryside just north of the city to experience Italian country life. Frankie and I are renovating a little abandoned villa with lush grounds built by his great-grandfather beside the hilltop town of Palombara Sabina near Tivoli. Still working and performing in the city, I love the contrasts of life that I get to experience in Italy. Activities include olive harvesting for olive oil, fruit picking, designing vegetable gardens, fencing for animals and so much more. I literally squealed with joy when I managed to get the massive wood burning pizza oven going. We also plan on including a yoga/artist studio as I have also been selling my paintings for a few years now. There is a lot of potential. But the most important thing is the enjoyment we get out of this little corner of paradise and sharing it with friends.

What’s the cost of living compared to Ireland or other places? What is cheap or expensive in particular?

On the surface everything seems far cheaper in Italy than in Ireland. €2 for a bottle of wine? Yes, please! But everything else apart from groceries often costs the earth in Rome. From the prices that the Italian shops charge you’d think towels and sheets were a precious commodity. Toiletries cost twice, sometime triple what I pay in Dublin and there is not much choice. There are not many do-it-all stores that offer you toiletries and make-up products for competitive prices like in Ireland. Lots of foreigners turn to online shopping while living in Italy, for those who dare to trust the Italian post service, or they buy things when they visit home. For people who would like a more modern living approach such as using natural products, eco-shops are scarce with even higher prices (human footprint awareness and recycling is a new concept in Rome). But again it’s doing your own research that makes the difference. Go to the big shopping centers on the outskirts of the city for more choice for clothing. Lots of people including Italians head to Ikea for affordable household goods. I worry for Italian brands in this way for the future. For example the Chinese population in Rome saw that there was a gap in the market for cheap knick knacks and household supplies so there is now a shop on every corner in the suburbs which have pushed a lot of more expensive Italian businesses out. Italian products are good quality, you’ll just have to pay more. Rent is just as expensive as Dublin so though it’s high in Rome, I’m used to it.

What are the Romans like compared to for example people in your last residence – do you notice any difference?

Living with a passionate Roman man I’ve been able to get an inside look at Romans, their families and relationships with friends. There is a definite unique set of characteristics. They are a warm, social bunch and usually make friends early and keep them for life. They are loud and laid-back, honest and confident. Romans check themselves out in shop windows, push on the metro and cut people off on the road. They are fiery but it passes to joviality as quickly as it comes. Their overall outlook makes the Irish seem quite repressed at times with all of our politeness and manners. Irish men often won’t approach women they don’t know while the opposite is famously true for Italian men. Another thing that struck me is that Italians are masters of moderation. A little wine here, a small croissant there and never too much, which is very unlike the Irish. Italians are also still very traditional and superstitious; never pour your wine with your wrist pointed up, never have cheese with seafood pasta etc. The beauty of Rome is not wasted on the locals. They will trawl the riverside looking for parking after dinner and join the throngs in Trastevere to take a stroll, enjoy the warm air and touch base with friends.

Did you think it is easy meeting people and making friends in Rome?

Yes and no. I surrounded myself at first with amazing student friends who I still keep in touch with. But later returning to Rome to do it alone and not knowing anyone, I had times of uncertainty. My Italian wasn’t up to scratch for Italian friendships in the beginning. Also most foreigners are only here for a couple of months so I made lots of friends only to start again when they left. I used to joke that I’ve asked more girls out than the average Italian male! But I’m lucky there are lots of chances to meet people in a big city. Unfortunately most Italian guys you meet will usually want to ask you out instead of being friends if you’re a foreign girl. But I decided to go with the flow, stop focusing on it and let it happen naturally. A lot of life is letting go. As soon as I did, I found some people who are living here longer term. I also get along with the band I’m in who are all Roman and a bunch of sweethearts. After lots of practice with Frankie my Italian has improved and has really helped getting to know people and also finding more work.

What are your favorite restaurants/bars there in Rome (WHY) – and socially/workwise – what kind of networks do you attend to connect with people for business/personal life?

There seems to be a contemporary cultural awakening in Rome, so there are always new places springing up. Take the area of Monti for example. It’s now the bohemian shabby chic mecca of Rome, the new place to be for locals and expats who are in the know. Life is cyclical though so I’d get there soon before it becomes overcrowded by the tourist trail. Monti is the best place to be for a few drinks and some vintage shopping, a stone’s throw from the Colosseum. For a novel meal, Aperitivo (a buffet-style meal that includes your drink) has blown up in Rome. It’s a great cheap dinner option as it’s all you can eat, and in trendy surroundings. Great options are Doppio Zero on Via Ostiense or MoMart near Piazza Bologna, which offer a huge selection of pasta, pizza, rice, veggies and sweets from around 7pm-9pm. For traditional down to earth Roman cooking I go to Li Scalini de Marisa, in the foody Garbatella area that locals love. I usually order the strange-sounding but surprisingly delicious tripe in tomato sauce.

Socially if you want to get in with Italians it’s a great idea to take Italian classes. Only one or two in every group of Italians will have good English. Picking a nice Italian roommate can open up that avenue of social life for you, or going along to the many language exchange clubs in the city. Other expats are available through lots of Facebook pages full of lovely visitors looking to meet up and do fun things in the city. Taking a course/class can also be a great way to meet others like you. I didn’t want to fall in with the comfortable option of the Irish societies hanging out in Irish bars in Rome. I’ve gotten to know people through work, my concerts, culture clubs and expat events. Give yourself time, if I can do it anyone can! Overall being active has been my best policy socially.

What’s the economic climate like in Rome, how would you compare it to Ireland? Why?

Ireland seems years ahead of Rome in some things, which would surprise a lot of my Irish friends. Romans still laugh at you if you put your seatbelt on in the back of the car! Economy-wise Rome is where Ireland was a good few years ago; calls for cuts on salaries for government and banking officials, new budgets and elections etc. Ireland has crawled out of their EU loan situation and is now doing better. But economic downturns always spur a city to invent creative ways to survive and grow, using the past as inspiration such as vintage shops and shabby-chic venues. As in Dublin, now in Rome new independent small businesses and venues with a nod to nostalgia are setting up shop.

Is there any advice you would like to offer new expats/entrepreneurs arriving in Rome?

Give yourself at least 3 months to get settled. I’ve seen people fall prey to the two-month itch countless times where nothing seems to work, they don’t like their job or they can’t find a room so they quickly return home again. Think outside the box in Rome, approach places and people for yourself. Don’t knock yourself when it doesn’t happen the first few tries. We’ve all been there. You’ll be proud of making your way in a complex and bustling city. For the females, get used to a little bit of chauvinism when it comes to business. Twice I’ve had a meeting with a new manager turn into a surprise date. Foreign girls are seen as helpless at times, in need of a personal guide. Just ignore it, they are persistent but still polite.

Anything else you would like to share with us?? Choose freely.

Rome is experiencing a split personality between its weighty history and its modernity, which makes it an interesting place to be right now. The city is packed. If you look at photos of Rome from the 1960’s the only difference now is every nook and cranny is stuffed with cars. Because the transport is unreliable Rome is a walking city for those without a car. An English poet gave me a copy of a comic poem all about the hazards of wearing the wrong shoes in Rome. Forget heels or stylish formal shoes, Rome’s cracked and cobbled streets will literally eat them. Another thing to be aware of, most foreign people working here are English teachers or nannies and 90% of those people don’t stay on for long, so try to find your own niche if you want to make a go of it here.

Connect with Sharon Moran:
Sharon at Facebook
www.undergroundinsider.com

Britt Hansson – Ex-EuroCircle Stockholm Team Leader’s Life in Florida

Would you please tell us a short story about yourself, who you are, where are you from, where you live now, what do you do and so on>?

My name is Britt Hansson, I was born and raised in Brazil and have dual citizenship (Brazilian/Swedish) because my father was Swedish. I currently live in St. Petersburg Florida and I work for Tech Data Corporation which is a broad line distributor of IT products. I’m I the position of Senior Marketing Account Executive for IBM.

How did you end up in Tampa – when we were in touch with you last time you were part of EuroCircle team in Stockholm (currently no team) and looking for work in Sweden?

I moved from Sao Paulo, Brazil to St. Petersburg Florida in 1988 to attend college. I ended up living in St. Petersburg for 13 years. After graduating from Eckerd College with a degree in Marketing Management I started working at Tech Data Corporation supporting the marketing initiatives for the Latin America department. After 5 years in the position I decided to move to Stockholm and was hired by Tech Data in Sweden to support their marketing initiatives. I worked at Tech Data Sweden for 3 years. In 2004 I left Tech Data and was hired by an English company called marcus evans which is a global multi-faceted media company, corporate marketing and information company. I managed two sales teams in both Stockholm and Cape Town. In 2008 I left marcus evans and started working for a Swedish magazine supporting women in business. In 2011 I was offered the opportunity to return to Tech Data in Clearwater Florida where I have been since.

What do you enjoy most about Tampa, now when you have more experience, how’s the quality of life compared to Brazil, Sweden or other countries you may have lived in?

I love the weather and the more comfortable and peaceful pace of life that Florida has to offer. After having experienced the chaotic city of Sao Paulo for 18 years and the very cold and long winters of Stockholm for 10 years I was happy to be back.

Usually there are some negatives, what are the ones for Tampa that really stand out for you personally? What do you miss most about home – what is your home in your heart?

honestly don’t know where I call home anymore. I have moved so much in my life and have experienced both positive and negative aspects in all 3 cities/countries. I think that what I miss most from Sweden and Brazil is closeness to family. I have no family in Florida and when the Holidays come around it’s a bit challenging. I have very good friends in Florida though so I am not totally alone.

Do you feel Tampa is a good place for you as an employee/entrepreneur/freelance right now? Are there any areas expats like you might like in the USA better than in Europe or Brazil in your opinion (entrepreneurs etc) WHY?

For the moment my employment opportunity is reasonable in the US. Cost of living is lower in the Tampa Bay area compared to Sweden and Brazil so the salary I earn offers me a better quality of life.

What are the best places/suburbs to live in Tampa in your opinion?

St. Petersburg Florida! I often say that I live in a bubble. St. Pete (as we call it) is a pleasant city offering beautiful beaches and cozy downtown/city life. People are extremely friendly and we are attracting a lot more yuppies from up north.

Do you go out a lot – hobbies? Or is everything about work right now?

I’m actually considering a new hobby. I love water sports and want to start sailing classes at my college campus since I can use the water front facilities.

What’s the cost of living compared to Brazil/Sweden? What is cheap or expensive in particular?

I think everything is a little cheaper in Florida compared to Sweden and Brazil. If anymore is looking for real estate investments this is the time to buy in Florida!

What are the locals like compared to for example people in Brazil or any other country you have lived in – do you notice any difference?

Floridians are a lot more open to making new friends compared to Stockholm. Brazilians in general are friendly but I don’t know how I would adapt again since I left Brazil 25 years ago.

Did you think it is easy meeting people and making friends in Tampa?? It seems like a city that would not have a huge lively European style downtown where you can access all by foot??

am lucky in that sense because I kept in touch with several special friends that I have now reconnected to. However, I have also made many new friends as well. I don’t have trouble making friends though……it’s just part of who I am.

What’s the economic climate like in Tampa, how would you compare it to Sweden etc? Why?

The economic climate is finally improving after the financial crisis of 2008. Homes are now selling again and jobs more readily available.

Do you think your career (business) would be the same in Brazil – or does this work better for you? Either way, please explain more.

I often think about this and quite honestly I don’t know if my career would have been better in Brazil over the US. I feel that the US has offered me more opportunity overall compared to both Brazil and Sweden.

What are your favorite restaurants/bars here in Tampa (WHY) – and socially/workwise – what kind of networks do you attend to connect with people for business/personal life?

For restaurants: in St Petersburg Mesa Cantina, in Tampa Berns steakhouse. For bars both in Tampa and St. Pete is Ceviches

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